How You Think about Interacting with Women is Wrong

I think David D puts it as clearly and accurately as possible 'women don’t make sense' He’s not being a women hater, he is just stating what should be obvious to us all by now: attraction is NOT a logical process, and women are not attracted in the way men think they should be.

To become better at attracting more quality women into our lives the first change has to be in our own thinking! This shift in thinking is a big one for many men; it may even require a small leap in faith. The important thing to remember when trying to understand any of this is: all that matters is that it works!

The traditional dating game is all wrong for both men and women. As guys we always complain about spending a lot of money on gifts and taking women out who are largely unappreciative! We feel this way for good reason, women, while interested in wealth and status, will not magically find you desirable if you buy them a bunch of stuff with your vast fortune. Women want to feel attraction for you. They don’t care about how much you give or spend. Beautiful women feel an understandable contempt for the pathetic little boys who try to suck up to them and buy their affection. Trying to spend money to gain her affections is manipulative and makes you seem of lower value and unconfident in yourself. Ouch!

From this you should take two very important lessons. The first, attraction is not logical, and second, women are more interested in how you make them FEEL than how much money or status you have.

The question becomes, where do I begin in changing my thinking to become more desirable to women? An attitude and way of thinking that lays beneath every interaction you have with women and will make you more attractive to them is this: you are the selector NOT the selected! This means you have standards and will not put up with second-class behavior from any women. This belief changes everything!

To recap the main points you should take form this writing are: attraction is not logical, women are more interested in how you make them feel, and you are the selector not the selected. I should also note that these concepts, while very important just begin to scratch the surface of this subject. If you would like to understand more about how to meet and attract the women you really want keep reading and learning from experience.